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Kate Dixon is a relationship expert and author.
When you get married you have such high hopes for the future. Sure, you know that some couples lose their love. Some get divorced and others lose their passion for one another. But somehow, you never believe it can happen to you.
Suddenly you find yourself desparate for any kind of sexless marriage help that you can find, anyone to help you get back the passion.
I understand how you feel. The feeling of anger, fear, rejection, and even humiliation are hard to bear. But bear them you must because you need to take action to fix your sexless marriage. It’s unlikely to happen on its own.
The first thing you need to do is be confident in your ability to get the passion back. I don’t care how long it has been like this. You can turn this around.
Second, you have to avoid casting blame, whether at your spouse or at yourself. You are not to blame here. You are not ugly or fat or anything of the sort. This just happens to people, many people, good people. You’re just unfortunate, not guilty of anything.
Third, you have to begin changing the routine of your life which drove your marriage to this dismal place. A sexless marriage doesn’t happen of its own. It’s the result of how you two are doing together. You can change this. In fact, you must.
Fourth, you need to start getting back into “dating mode” trying to figure out how the two of you were before, when the passion was high and you had a lot less obligations in life.
Fifth, although you can do a lot without your partner’s participation, having them on board and cooperating can be a big help. However, never despair. It may take some time but you can fix your sexless marriage.
Never lose hope, put some excitement into your life, spend more quality time together and you may see the passion return to your marriage.