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Is there something you wish you would have done (maybe pre-marriage counseling, or living together, or something along those lines), wish someone would have told you?
Me and my fiancee are getting married September 23, 2011 and we just want to know what are things we need to do before we get married. Anything besides getting joint accounts and doing marriage counseling because we will be doing that. Anything else, let me know please? Thanks in advance.
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‘Fraud’
‘Irreconcilable differences’
Some of the major reasons cited for divorce in the Western World. Perhaps these marriages would have survived if any of the issues which caused the divorce were resolved before the couple got married. I say this because I’m a hug believer in the sanctity of marriage. I’m not particularly religious but having seen my parents been married for 30 years, I believe that people of our generation don’t take marriage seriously. I’m discouraged by the fact that around 50% of marriage ends in divorce. Why should I get married if there is a reasonable chance it will end in divorce? That’s why I think it might be a good idea for a couple to be evaluated as a match or receive guidance before they embark on a lifetime commitment together. So many marriages end because the couple realise they have different ideas about where they want to be in the future, or because they take the problems in their relationship before they tied the knot into their marriage. What do you think?
Elle, I understand what you mean but people I think marriages are ending because people are marrying for the wrong reasons. One thing I disagree with about the older generation is that people were marrying at really young ages; I don’t think you should marry until you’ve reached a certain level of maturity- I’m 24 and I know I’m nowhere near the level of maturity to make a commitment like marriage. People need to look at their relationships in a serious and pratical way and see if they really could stay with someone for 50+ years. Otherwise it just isn’t worth it.
I don’t disagree with divorce- sometimes it is just not working and it’s better if people part. But it’s getting ridiculous now- people are trading in their marriages now as often as they trade in a defective good at a computer shop!
Since you have been married, do you go to marriage counseling, do you find it helpful?
I’m afraid my parents might get a divorce because they’ve been fighting a lot lately, and I want to know some things that cause parents to argue over and finally get a divorce.
Is it mandatory that a couple must get marriage counseling before filing divorce? Even if they do not have children together.
I have accumulated a nice amount of assets simply by saving and investing. Some of it before I got married, some while married. Now I want to divorce but don’t want her to get half of the funds. We have a joint account that has a little bit of money that I don’t mind splitting with her, but my personal funds I want to hide. There are obviously records of what is in there today, and will be records of any withdrawals I make between now and the divorce. I was thinking about withdrawing the funds, purchasing gold or high valued coins, and storing them in a safety deposit box listed in my mother’s name. During the divorce will I be held accountable for funds that were once in my personal account but are now gone? Does anyone have a better idea on how to move the funds out of my accounts and out of the site of the divorce laywers? PS – she doesn’t know I am planning on divorcing her yet. I want to figure out this money thing first. Please help.