Isn’t it interesting how the meaning, significance, and celebration of holidays change for each of us over time. For example, Valentine’s Day begins as a fun day where kids make cards and give heart shaped candies to classmates. It then transforms into a day where teenagers have ‘crushes’ and buy roses for someone special. And eventually, it becomes a day where couples become unselfish and say and do things for their significant other. Undoubtedly, Valentine’s Day is one of the best holidays because it helps us all think of and do things for those we love and appreciate. If only our words and actions demonstrated on this day could translate into every day! But, even if for a day, this holiday allows us the opportunity to more fully possess and demonstrate the very attribute and characteristic that defines the purpose of our existence, the solution to every problem, and the foundation of personal happiness – love! And never forget that love is much more than a thought, feeling, or word; love is an action initiated by perhaps the other great attribute we all must develop – unselfishness!
Below are listed 15 fun, meaningful, and even romantic ideas that are the perfect Valentine’s traditions and activities for any family, couple, or individual.
1) ‘Heart Attack’: First, choose a friend, neighbor, teacher, family member, or person in need. Or, do this for mom/dad (or in each of the kids’ rooms). Cut out many heart shaped cards and write down things you love about that person on each card. Then, place those cards all over the yard (or room) of the person you are ‘heart attacking’ (with some candy of course).
2) ‘I Love You’ Phone Calls, Emails, and Letters: Pick up the phone, send an email, or write a letter to family members, friends, or a ‘special’ someone and tell them how much you love and appreciate them.
3) First Date: Recreate your first date; or if possible, visit the place you went on your first date.
4) Meals Should be RED with Lots of Sugar: Have cookies for breakfast, make a cake for lunch, have the kids choose what they want for dinner, etc. But, everything needs to be RED!
5) Romantic Candlelight Dinner & Evening: Enough said, right!
6) Valentine Gifts: Identify a family or children in need and give them Valentine’s. Go to the local orphanage, visit sick kids at the hospital, go to the homeless shelter, etc. – and give these people food, clothes, toys, books, cookies, and especially some ‘Valentines.’
7) ‘I Love You’ Game: Around the table at dinner, each person will take a turn and say at least one thing they love about every member of the family.
8) Love Notes: Write little notes of reasons why you love someone and leave them randomly around the house. It could be for mom, dad, the kids, etc. You could leave these notes in many places, but here are a few ideas: under their pillow, in dad’s briefcase, under the lid of the washer, in the microwave, the shower, in the kids backpacks, etc.
9) Give Valentines to Everyone: Identify a special teacher, a struggling co-worker, a new neighbor, an elderly person, a family in need, classmate who may not be as popular, a helpful banker, a friendly barber, the kind mailman, etc. – make them Valentines and tell them how much you appreciate them.
10) Weekend Get-Away: Make it a tradition to get a babysitter and spend the weekend with just mom and dad – no kids.
11) Heart Cookies Handout: As a family, make many heart shaped cookies and deliver them to family, friends, neighbors, or people who may not have a ‘Valentine.’ Specifically give them to widows, recently divorced women, someone who just broke up from a relationship, etc.
12) Love Letters Scrapbook: Parents will write a small note for each child of why they love them, and the children will do the same. Then, give each person their letters, read them, and then store them in a scrapbook year by year.
13) ‘I Love You’ Table Cloth: Get a white table cloth and pull it out each year for Valentines. Everyone will write on the table cloth each year little things they love about their parents and siblings.
14) Valentine’s Picnic: For dinner, have a picnic on the living room floor. Remember – every item has to be RED, and the more sugar the better!
15) Family Day: Just spend time as a family, and with those you love. Share a meal together, play games as a family, and just spend time together.
Have Fun!
Matt is the founder of http://www.Tips4Families.com/ ? a website full of helpful parenting advice, fun games and activities, traditions and holiday ideas, and tips and articles for families everywhere. Matt is also the author of: ?Great Games! 175 Games & Activities for Families, Groups, & Children.? To view the book and learn more, visit: http://www.GreatGamesBook.com/
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