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I am debating what degree I should get my Masters on. My two choices are Community or Family and Marriage counseling. Which one provides more opportunities especially in Texas.
Me and my fiancee are getting married September 23, 2011 and we just want to know what are things we need to do before we get married. Anything besides getting joint accounts and doing marriage counseling because we will be doing that. Anything else, let me know please? Thanks in advance.
My marriage appears to be falling apart, the thing that gets me is, I could care less. Today my husband and I had an argument, I guess I snapped at him because i told him twice to move and he didn’t listen because he is tired. Anyways we went to the grocery store with our 1 year old, the entire time he ignored me, walked fast away from me, wouldn’t answer any of my questions about what food we need, and when our daughter was fussy he wouldn’t help me. The worst was when I was holding our daughter and he was walking around the store in circles for no apparent reason, i couldn’t catch up. I felt so frustrated I just cried but tried to hide it from other customers. He will ignore me for days, he will ignore our daughter too, he just goes into a room and locks the door, I have to beg him to talk to me. I feel like this is extremely childish. We have things we need to get down, and until I basically beg him to forgive me or something they won’t get done. The whole world will stop untilthen
Also soon I won’t have the internet he will most likely unplug it when he goes to work. I don’t have a car or friends or anything. I feel extremely depressed.
I don’t know I always have to apologize and listen to what I did wrong, my husband has never been “wrong” or apologized for anything.
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‘Irreconcilable differences’
Some of the major reasons cited for divorce in the Western World. Perhaps these marriages would have survived if any of the issues which caused the divorce were resolved before the couple got married. I say this because I’m a hug believer in the sanctity of marriage. I’m not particularly religious but having seen my parents been married for 30 years, I believe that people of our generation don’t take marriage seriously. I’m discouraged by the fact that around 50% of marriage ends in divorce. Why should I get married if there is a reasonable chance it will end in divorce? That’s why I think it might be a good idea for a couple to be evaluated as a match or receive guidance before they embark on a lifetime commitment together. So many marriages end because the couple realise they have different ideas about where they want to be in the future, or because they take the problems in their relationship before they tied the knot into their marriage. What do you think?
Elle, I understand what you mean but people I think marriages are ending because people are marrying for the wrong reasons. One thing I disagree with about the older generation is that people were marrying at really young ages; I don’t think you should marry until you’ve reached a certain level of maturity- I’m 24 and I know I’m nowhere near the level of maturity to make a commitment like marriage. People need to look at their relationships in a serious and pratical way and see if they really could stay with someone for 50+ years. Otherwise it just isn’t worth it.
I don’t disagree with divorce- sometimes it is just not working and it’s better if people part. But it’s getting ridiculous now- people are trading in their marriages now as often as they trade in a defective good at a computer shop!
or would it be worth the money to find a reputable marriage therapist not covered under insurance. I just want to make the visits worthwhile and not sure the psychologists covered under BC/BS are as good.
My ex husband and I are working on a new and improved relationship together, attempting to reconcile. I am having a hard time with the divorce even though we are still working on things. There is a divorce support group at my church and I am considering going, but I don’t really fit the criteria. I am not trying to cut off all ties or anything, but I could use some coping skills maybe. I am just wondering if it could interfere with the reconciliation process. Any serious thoughts?
i’m worried nothing will get accomplished if i bring things up now because we don’t communicate well, but i don’t want to make a big list to bring with me to counselling (esp since i have to figure out insurance & whatnot before i can even make an appt, so i don’t know when it will be)…
what should i do??
just found out i can’t get in for counselling until after the new year…
He is very controlling and verbally abusive. He comes from a family with the same issues. Our nine year marriage has consisted, from my perspective, mostly of me bending over backwards to keep the peace and getting used as a verbal punching bag regardless of how nice I try to be. Today I got mad and talked back and it just made the arguement worse. He yelled about how horrible I was and how I was stubborn and always had to have the last word and it was all my fault. This is typical, but it still makes me cry. Then twenty minutes later he is like nothing ever happened and is all congenial again. I guess my question is, how do I present counseling in a way that won’t make him dig in and refuse? I know I’ve been an enabler, and if you asked me 10 years ago if I would tolerate an abusive relationship I would have said absolutely not! So, I need some counseling too!